I'm a Meat Lover, but...

Oh, boy.

I just saw this video on Facebook and checked it out on YouTube. I mean, I can't believe how horrible these animals were treated. I've been to farms here in the Philippines, and I've seen how they slaughter pigs and cows and chickens. But never in this regard. Not at all. This video was an eye-opener. In the portion where male chicks were grounded to a pulp...man, that was sick. I know that here, in the Philippines, those will be raised as poultry. And the cows left to stand all those years for the milk that's supposed to be for their young, while their young cattle slaughtered and butchered mercilessly, I'm beginning to weigh things on whether I should start becoming a vegetarian.

I have a pitbull, and I hate peddlers selling sparrows. I hate dog-eaters, and I let lizards in the house play happily on the walls even when I'm taking a bath. I believe they have the right to enjoy the life that God gave them, though not as long as we can have.

Watch the video, and learn the truth.

Love, Love and More Love!

It's the time of the year again, where roses are three times more expensive than the usual, and chocolates are everywhere. It's Valentine's Day.

Last year, I spent my Valentine's Day slaving to get all the orders in from a flower company in Los Angeles that does its contact center here. With the exception of my hubby and son visiting me and spending a few moments with me at the hotel room (Nope, we didn't shag there, excuse me!), I let them enjoy the evening and buffet while my colleagues and I worked our asses off.

Now, I get to spend my morning with my hubby, sans the roses and chocolates and whatever. A good breakfast should do the trick. I hope so.

So, how will you spend your Valentine's Day without busting your pocket? Here are some of the tips that you might want to try:

1. If both of you are off for the day, then cozy up in the sofa and start feeding your DVD player with romantic classics like "Notting Hill", "Love Story", " The Notebook", "Sleepless in Seattle" and others. Or if you want to rid yourselves with tissue paper because of constant bawling over these movies, try "The Walking Dead".

2. Go to La Mesa Ecopark if you live near Quezon City, Fairview, Novaliches, Commonwealth, or wherever. Its entrance is cheap (around Php 40.00/head if you're a resident of QC, and Php 50.00 for non-residents). You can enjoy biking, strolling, and commune with nature, or enjoy that 30-minute boat ride (although right now it's under maintenance.)

3.  Go to your nearest malls and enjoy whatever open concerts or promos they have in store for shoppers.

4. If you live down south, then a quick trip to Tagaytay, or Laguna, and spend a picnic with your loved one. Enjoy the home-cooked meals and cuddling and more.

5. Travel back in time by visiting historical places or a museum. Know the love story angle that each item, or picture conveys. Learn your history.

6. Buy some "the Bar" vodka and mix some cocktails with cheap pica on the side. Dance over slow music and enjoy the beat.

7. If you have a porch, terrace or den, convert that into a "restaurant" setting, complete with dining set and candles, and enjoy a sumptuous meal you prepare for the evening.

There are still a lot of other wild, crazy ideas you can think of. But always remember to share it with the one you love.

Kisses to all!

Don't Give Me Bad Romance

Have you ever found yourself in a situation wherein you are about to explode after almost a mind-blowing foreplay when suddenly, your partner will say," Oh gosh, I'm coming!", and then pffft. You lost your own shot at nirvana. Afterwards, you have no other option but to smile and say,"Yeah, baby, that was good."

If men are mind-readers, then probably few women will lose their chance to have a titillating orgasm while having hot sex. Unfortunately, either they're too absorbed in their own prowess in the bedroom, or they're complete morons. Take your pick.

A lot of women are still in the shadows, figuring out how to get a good time while in bed. According to several readings, one way to make your man do WHAT you want to do, is do the "I" statements. Tell him what you want him to do first, and savor every moment that he does it. Sounds kinky? As long as you're not using off-the-wall words, or belittling or berating his "weapon", you'll be off in ecstasy in no time.

Another is to talk to your man first before you actually do it. Tell him what you want. Tell him what you think would make you tick. Now, if he's thick enough not to notice that, then it's time for you to hit the sack instead (unless throwing him out of the street is the better option!).

Tame the bull in him. Rein in first before he starts to dive in. If you're not ready, think of other means to make the lovemaking long enough for you to get ready.

One suggestion that I have read in a n article  is to use "love" tools - porn movies, sex toys, or whatever kinky costume you have in the closet. Use them to tickle your own fantasy, and let him join the fun. According to research, men actually find using these options as adventurous and makes the lovemaking longer, and more enjoyable.

So, in this love month, and you're planning to tumble the sheets of your bed with your partner, get up and tell him straight in the face what you want - definitely not bad romance.

Funny Joke!

This one had me laughing...


A man buys a lie detector robot that slaps people who lie. He decides to test it at dinner. DAD: Son, where were you today during school hours? 
SON: At school *Robot slaps Son* 
S: OK, I went to the movies. 
D: Which 1? ...
S: Toy Story *Robot slaps son* 
S: OK, it's Day with a Porn Star. 
D: WHAT? When I was your age I didn't even know what porn was! *Robot slaps Dad* 
MOM: HAHA! After all he's your son. *Robot slaps mom*


Ouch!